I started this post about 4 times now and all going in different ways. I was even thinking of giving up the blog all together since this last year my attendance to it has been so bad. I have never been a daily blogger but so much has distracted me this last year and a half that all my writing has suffered. Practice makes perfect but you have to do it to reach that. And I am not a quitter so as I typed almost a whole page on it I realized I could not do that.
Then I started a page but it was a rant and I didn’t get too far when I realized that I didn’t want a negative post especially since I hadn’t been on for a while. I always try to have positive posts unless it is something I feel is important enough to rant about. As I deleted this page to start over I was lost in my head. Where are my poems? Where are my stories?? Why am I at that writer’s wall again or I should say still??
So, I started this yesterday, let’s see how far we get???? Lol!!!
I find that life has many roads and side streets to travel. Some lead to nowhere, some lead to danger, some lead to wonderful things for us to see and experience. It is our choice how we choose to react and learn from each turn we take. And that is what many of the turn offs and side streets are for. Learning! It may be something we need to learn about ourselves or others but it is put there for that. If we choose not to learn from it then it is our choice if the outcome isn’t what we wanted, we did choose it. It takes some of us longer to remember that, and learn these lessons but bottom line is we make the choice. Of course, there are circumstances that come that people cannot control such as illness, death, and other issues, but it is still our choice how we handle it. I think this last year and a half this has been one of my lessons along with patience and letting go. I think these are hard lessons but I see now I do have control to learn and grow from these lessons. As I change the way I look at them I see the difference on how I handle them. And WORK is involved. Work is a main tool in life. If you don’t put in the work you won’t get very far. I have always had good work ethics but I keep forgetting to apply it to all aspects in my life especially in myself on this journey of life and its many roads and side streets. So I am rolling up my sleeves to dig in and do the work.
Now I came back to finish this morning and still not sure if this is what I wanted to write about when I got this in my mail I figured the timing was right:
“We can always choose to perceive things differently. You can focus on what’s wrong in your life, or you can focus on what’s right.”
– Marianne Williamson
I also want to thank all my followers who stick with me. I really appreciate your support and patience.
To the bloggers out there who put out so many good posts and every day! That is impressive!