Good Morning to you all. This is just a little random silly poem I typed this morning after another short night or is it a long night I am not sure. But it is what comes out of not sleeping, lol. I am sure most of you understand some sleepless nights and know your mind is pretty cloudy when you are half asleep or half awake either way. Our brains really need sleep to function. So I wish for all of you a good night sleep every night!
Yes I have them too! I have had a lot to deal with this year, and it was several things at once and yes I have had several really good pity parties. I think it is good to have them once in a while and clean out all the left overs of the emotions that caused you to need the Pity Party and after all I am a really good party thrower and hostess. I do my best to make my quests feel comfortable and have fun and if it is a pity party they want, that’s what they get. So of course I took full advantage of it. I won’t go into the blah, blah, blah of it all but it is easy to get down and feel sorry for oneself and hide out when these obstacles come up in your path. I am fine and I will get thru as I always do. Now it is easier because I have learned I don’t need to carry things around forever.(“No monkeys on my back”) There are some things we cannot change. And it is certainly no reason to use it as an excuse for not living and enjoying a good life. But sometimes it takes something or someone to remind you.
I had a friend send me a response to an e-mail I sent her and I was so touched. She didn’t tell me what to do or how to do it she just listened and offered to be there. (Thank you Mama C) I saw the fog parting in my head and the cobwebs swept away and remembered again how lucky and blessed I am with a loving wonderful family and some awesome good friends along with my faith. Yes some things in life are awful Many things are unfair. And there can be a lot of pain in people’s life. And yes I think it is good to cry and let the tears wash away what they can. But then it is time to remember what we do have and use that to lead us through this storm we may be in. If we know we are doing the right thing and we focus on the good we do have we will be able to make it through the storm. It may be something that can never go away or be taken back or will impact your way of life but it should and will become a distant memory filed into the lesson section of your brain if we let it. Basically it is all lessons and we learn how or how not to handle the issues we face.
So for now the Pity Party is done. I am about celebrating all the good I have. It will take time and work but I am ready for it!
Thank you to those of you who have helped me learn this!
I have always been a what I call a hit and miss blogger. I hit when I am on a good writing run and I miss when I am not. This last few years so much has happened and going on that the misses are more than the hits. I appreciate all of you who stick with me. I am trying to get back into it again. I have worked for three or four months trying to write a poem that doesn’t rhyme, lol, I just haven’t been able to do it yet. I want to put a book together of poetry so I am going through a lot of my poems and see which ones I want to use. I am also editing them and rewriting some. This will also help me editing. Oh that is hard for me. I have a story in verse I plan to try and get edited and out there. It needs big time editing and an ending. It is already over 50,000 words. So I am going to practice on small things first. I am still trying to write some new things too. Some people seem to just put out the words so easily and steadily. That is the amazing to me!
This first poem I am working on I published here about 3 years ago. It has been changed for the better I hope. Enjoy!
I am open to suggestions or comments as I post some of these if you care to. After all the readers are usually the best judges!
THE BOOK SHOULD STAY
Opening windows here and there.
Opening screens everywhere.
Who would have thought the pen was dead?
Now we have laptops instead.
If that is not bad enough,
They want to replace books with that stuff.
No books you say, I think I might die.
And most people will ask, why?
There is no way they should take them away.
It is wrong I want to say.
Open a book anywhere you go,
There is always something you will want to know.
Books and their words should be here forever,
They help make people become very clever.
You cannot do this I stand up and shout!
There is more than reading that a book is about.
What happens when the machine battery dies or it breaks?
And it was decided that books, they would no longer make?
All the wondrous words lost,
That will be at a very high cost.
Books are to be held in your hand.
To see the words that helps your mind expand.
T0 feel the texture of the book you hold,
Is what makes it a special experience so bold.
There is a feeling of holding it and the turning of the page,
Will it hold more wisdom than a wise sage?
To receive a book is truly a gift.
It certainly will give you a lift.
All the beautiful words they keep,
There is nothing like a good book to make you think deep.
Maybe an adventure into a foreign land,
Or a trip back in time unplanned.
Whatever it may be it opens your mind,
And tickles your senses with many adventures you will find.
It can be used as a tutor,
Sure you can read the book on a computer.
But a great experience is lost, and at such a high cost.
So pick up a book today.
Hold it, read it and experience it in a new way.
You will appreciate its value and want books to stay.
For reading a good book is like a pleasant breeze.
It blows new thoughts into your head for you to seize.
That is what it takes for your mind to grow.
This helps you learn new things for you to know.
I loved the book! A real feel good, the girl wins and there is a happy ever after! Thank You Victoria!!
The Runaway Sleigh Christmas Special
By Victoria Bastedo
Reading is different for everyone. Everyone expects different things from a good book. Personally I want a book that makes me not want to stop reading it till it is done. I want to be kept guessing how it will end but not given the answer till the book is done. I want it to make me laugh and I want it to make me cry. To me a book that makes me laugh lifts my spirits and my mood and makes me believe I can do it! A good cry means the author touched me with real feelings. It means the characters where real inside and not just ink spilled on paper.
Author Victoria Bastedo covered all those items on my must for a good book. It had intrigue and love and family issues, secrets and lots of laughter and tears, yes there were tears. A young girl gets a job that gets her into all kinds of trouble, including physical injuries and well as wounded pride. But it brings her love something she didn’t count on. But she had to complete a mission for her mom and for herself. She had no information but a ring and a picture, not much for such an important question. But Ollie was just the girl to do it. And do it she does!
Other books by Victoria Bastedo
Sunrise Meets the Star
Black Poodle Over Seven Hills
I haven’t been too good about doing my blog as I should. I am working at getting better. For today I have taken a poem I wrote a year or so back using what I call my backward style. Why, who knows? lol! This time I rewrote it as it came out. No form or style just thoughts from the heart as the words lept to the paper they landed hard and in that spot they well stay! I think you will get the point anyway! I hope Dear Santa that makes up for being slack and this year I hope to be back.
PS: Ok! OK! So I don’t have to sweep the floors, lol We are off to the kids house this year!
Thank You Santa! And Sincerest Thank You to all my followers!
It was the day before Christmas and all through the house,
They were all asleep!
Except for mom, who had her headphones on to be quiet as a mouse,
she was busy listening to her music while her house she did sweep.
She started the cooking and was expecting her kids.
Excited and wanting to give them all kinds of gifts.
She wanted them to be happy, and have a good life.
Hoping it was filled with love and no strife.
She wished them love, health, happiness and joy.
Don’t forget laughter and yes, she would even give them a toy.
And to all her family and friends she wishes the same. She sends good wishes for you of joy and happiness and health, and love.
And she prays to one up above, for those who are alone and sad.
So to Everyone Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, or Happy Holiday of your belief, she hopes in your life, these things, you all will have bringing you peace and relief.
I want to wish a Happy Holiday Season to everyone! That means what ever color, race, religion you are. That means to the cooks, the maids, the CEO’s, the single parent, the kids EVERYONE! Yes I usually say Merry Christmas but I mean no offence and I don’t think most people do it is just what many of us grew up with. I believe in doing the right thing always but I think this time of year is especially important to be nice to everyone. And that means to the clerks in the stores with the long lines and the crowds. Remember they are doing their job and it is rough on them and when you get up to that counter and start yelling and complaining because your frustrated how do you think they feel! Your server at the coffee shop is probably overwhelmed with the sudden rushes of people demanding coffee now so they can rush out to get gifts to spread the Xmas cheer while they bully their way through the stores.
How about the postmen and women and the UPS and Fed-Ex people, it isn’t their fault the package is late. It isn’t their fault the roads are snowy or icy or crowded and they didn’t get to your house right at 1 pm or whatever. How do you think they feel? Maybe they have problems of their own and maybe they are trying to be nice to you and hide what they are going through.
During the holidays people who have problems suffer more. Their problems seem worse. Because the holidays are supposed to be good and happy and they aren’t. So why can’t we all be nice to each other. If everyone just smiled and used basic manners saying Thank You and Please, and holding our impatience in someone’s day could be made so much better. After all isn’t that what the Holidays are about???? Smiles and good feelings??? I think so. Nothing else should matter except helping everyone enjoy them.
I have watched people rip through a store clerk over nothing. Rudeness and bad manners are not acceptable to me at any time but during the Holidays when so many have so little and are so sad it is just wrong.
So I put out a challenge to everyone. Please be kind to the clerks, the cleaners, the stock clerks, the people working in the restaurants, the other shoppers, to every color and race and your holiday will be better and so well theirs. Is it so hard really to put on a smile?? If it is then maybe you need to be smiled at. And maybe someone will make your day by a smile and a kind word. If we all try maybe for this short time we could have Peace and Love and Joy for everyone. Everyone deserves that. Don’t forget the Police and Fireman , and Service Men and Women too, and all the people who are their for us always.
I want to Personally Thank all the clerks and workers out their that have to work in all this commotion. I appreciate all your work and personally I have gotten many smiles and good service from you all.
I wish for you all a wonderful Holiday full of Joy, Love, Peace and lots and lots of laughter!
I wanted to let everyone in the Valley or close enough to drive to North Bend of a little Gem I have found recently. It has been here for years and I am sure I must have heard about but had never gone till last week. It is the Valley Center Stage. We went to see “The Christmas Carol”, directed By Gary Schwartz, who also started the Theater.
The play was done in what is called “Story Theater Style”. I really didn’t know what to expect. I was very pleasantly surprised. It was wonderful. As I said in my first post about this, “my jaw actually hurt from smiling and laughing so much. (A good kind of hurt! lol!)
The cast was great. So many of them played several parts and narrated their parts as well. There was singing and so much joy put out to the audience. You could tell that the actors, both the adults and the kids involved loved what they were doing and they did it very well. I have seen quite a few plays and I have see AThe Christmas Carol many times. I can say that this version of The Christmas Carol is one of my favorites now. The work and love of the art put it to it showed. I looked around and everyone was smiling and laughing. I even cried a tear or two for Scrooge played by Gary Schwartz. (I don’t consider a movie or play or book to be any good if I don’t get a little bit of a cry out of it, lol. It could be from being sad or just so much joy.(LOL!)
I finally after all these years reading or seeing it on TV realize that Scrooge wasn’t so bad as he was so sad. But he finally saw his ways and turned himself around.
Thank you Valley Center Stage actors and director Gary Schwartz for such a great show and opening my eyes up to this form of Theater. I am really looking forward to going to another show there soon. I would highly recommend it to anyone.
Again the actors, and director and all the staff who were great also, thank you! Happy Holidays!
If you don’t live near the area here, check your home town and see if you have one, I think you will find it very entertaining.
The Friendship Gift
Sometimes we receive friends that don’t stay with us.
It is not that every friendship ends.
It is that everyone walks a different path.
Those paths at times are meant to change directions.
When paths cross it can create magic.
Those are the friendships that are lasting.
Distance and time don’t take them away.
Their stamp has been forever left in your heart.
Some friends are just good memories.
There are friendships that end badly.
We often get hurt.
But we learn from each one.
It isn’t always obvious, it isn’t an instant awakening.
And some are not for today.
Some lessons are for future days,
Long after the friends have gone.
It may be good or bad,
but it is there and it will show itself.
And it is meant to be that way
Many times a lesson we needed
Sometimes not a lesson we like
But it will teach us something.
Any time we learn we advance.
This makes each friendship a gift.
Writing is medicine to me. I write a lot of poems because it is fun, it is serious, it is happy, it is sad and it comes from my heart and head that way! Oh I can make up stuff for a book, my imagination comes up with all kinds of things but for some reason poems always seem to pop up. These last few years I have met a lot of great writers and poets. It has taught me a lot. Not only on the how of writing but the how, who and what of life. There are so many perspectives. There are so many opinions to hear and learn from.
Every few years it seems I go through a spell when nothing wants to spill down the fall onto the paper. Words might start to form but they don’t fit with each other. That is why you see this blog go on for quiet mode for a while without movement. So for awhile I take a break and read different blogs and books or stories to see what is out there.
I was doing that today and I read a friends poem and it was beautifully put of something I know I need to remind myself of and I know many other people also that get into the rut of life instead of living every moment we worry about what is ahead or behind or both. I want to be aware of today, now, this minute! I know I don’t enough. I try, I enjoy every day but thoughts of past sneak in or worry or just excitement of tomorrow and what it may bring sneaks in to take you eyes away from the prize and that is this very moment, every one of these very moments.
I loved the way Daron captured it with his words put together in such a wonderful way that I felt I was there in that moment with him with the birds and the sun and the breeze. Daron gets a lot of good thoughts on his front porch and this may be the start of a wonderful series I hope.
Thank You Daron for letting me share this!
From the Front Porch
I’ve been out here for hours now
And not one word has been put to paper
But the sun is warm and the breeze is a gentle caress
Maybe this moment is exactly as it should be;
To sit here and marvel at the gift of the consciousness
That records and governs my life.
All of it is Life:
The mailman, greeting as he walks past,
and the trees above me whispering to each other,
and the birds, always the birds, overhead.
I’m going to sit here a while longer
Like nothing is happening
and experience every moment of this thing we call
By Daron M. Beasley 9/16/2016
This is just a little fun thing I wrote a few weeks ago when I was telling my hubby that fall was here and he said he didn’t think Summer was over yet. LOL well Mother Nature always wins and Summer can try but Fall was given permission to come on in by Mother, LOL!
Fall is here
At least it’s near
Which no one seems to notice this year
Because still today
Summer is here to play
With its warm sunny days
But with deceptive ways
Sunny days shorter now but are too hot
Pretending fall is not here
Summer not wanting to get caught
Pretending that the evenings have not chilled
Or tree leaves haven’t started to change with colors filled
Mother Nature is ready to rearrange
She sets the stage of colors and conditions for fall to be
Usually it’s a very vivid show and good for all to see
So now she has to push summer out
Because the show is ready to begin
And summer will fight her all the way
Because of course he wants it to be his day
Teasing us with the heat
He is sure he has fall beat
But of course it already shows
What everyone knows
No matter how much summer tries
Fall will come for summer’s demise.